I love this!Personally, I'd love to have Bobby go out to a gay bar to check out "the scene" solo, and just happen upon Jean Paul and Kyle.
Jean Paul would, of course, be all flabbergasted by Bobby's arrival and Kyle would notice said flabbergastery(its a word, because I say it) and take the social reigns. He'd explain some of the nuances and maybe some of the cultural differences like how to spot if you're being cruised and what various monikers mean (bear, otter, twink, etc) and Bobby would argue to not being an idiot and Kyle would then offer to back down and let him figure it out on his own, to which Bobby would immediately concede and apologize and express appreciation for the "guidance".
All the while, Jean Paul is stifling his own frustrations -- for lack of a better word -- regarding Bobby and his introduction to "gayness" through his husband. And after some rather comical displays of failed flirtations from Bobby and guys hitting on Bobby, he'd leave and encounter a mugging and save someone's life and that someone would compliment him and Bobby would reply with something absurd like "You're welcome. I'm a twink. I think. Sort of. What did Kyle say I was?" and the civilian would just awkwardly leave while Bobby is still clumsily working through his speech out loud ending with him waving goodbye.
As time passes, Northstar would grow increasingly flustered around Bobby, as he was back in the Austen days, and Kyle would acknowledge his crush but assure him he isn't jealous and understands they have history -- whatever that history may be-- and suggest they continue to help Bobby acclimate however they can.
And eventually, Iceman and Hercules would bone.
Also, it'd be funny if Bobby compared Gaydar to Cerebro in some capacity. I dunno. It just seems like something he'd do.